When Miss S. from Toronto came in she told me she was obsessed with bird cage veils, and I quietly thought to myself… awesome, so am I. I have a quite a collection – anytime I find one in a store, I have to buy it. I travel to my boudoir photography marathons with a white veil (as well as a black one). I was thrilled to be able to do more shots with the white veil. It gives a whole different look than the black veil. I think it gives a nice soft look, and you don’t have to be a bride to wear one.
Miss S. was photographed at our last boudoir photography marathon in Toronto.
March 2, 2010 - 8:43 pm
Stunningly beautiful and a most excellent choice for Bridal Boudoir;)
If you are in the Washington DC Metropolitan area, I have boudoir sessions available next weekend (February 26, 27 & 28) in Reston.
Saturday and Sunday are currently full but a few appointments are available on Friday.
To book a session, go to the Northern Virginia Boudoir booking page.
I may add a trip to Baltimore in the future, if you are interested in a session in Baltimore, Maryland, please use the Boudoir Photography – Baltimore contact form to let us know.
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March 3, 2010 - 3:28 pm
Love love love this pic!! Erica, I promise you I will book your session again just to try this move again (didn’t work out the first time).
I love these images of Marianne. She wore the birdcage veil and I thought these images would be perfect for a vintage inspired look.
I have a black and a white birdcage veil that I bring to all my sessions that you can use if you would like a similar look for yourself.
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February 17, 2010 - 10:42 pm
These images are amazing!!!!!!! Are you going to WPPI? LOVE to see you!
February 18, 2010 - 8:38 am
I did some wonderful pictures with Erica wearing a black birdcage veil I had and they are some of my favorite pictures! They look great in black and white and in color. Ladies if you are booking a session with Tait Boudoir do yourselves a favor and try on a bird cage veil, you’ll be amazed how classic they look while also sexy and seductive, not to mention what great pictures Erica will take of you.
March 5, 2010 - 11:54 am
Great pictures! Love the veil! Keep up the great work!
The title of this post is one of my favorite sentiments that I have received from a client.
As women, we are always striving for perfection. In doing so we tend to overemphasize the negative aspects of our bodies. Everyday we judge ourselves when standing too close to a mirror in poor lighting and only focus on our perceived imperfections.
Seeing yourself through someone else’s eyes can be a huge confidence boost because you get to see your whole self, without judging the first thing you notice in the mirror.
Through boudoir photography, you can realize the beauty that you might not have known you possess.
“The end results [of a boudoir photo session] can show you all the beauty you might not know you have.” ~ Nicole
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February 16, 2010 - 2:22 am
That statement is so true! That is my biggest motivation to one day be able to have some boudoir pics with you (I love your style). I have big self-esteem issues, thus don’t see anything good especially after 3 kids. I can take fairly good pictures of other people but nobody can, of me. Anyway, keep up the good work!!!
February 28, 2010 - 11:24 pm
Erica I just wanted to say THANK YOU and my photos look Beautiful!!! I am so pleased and can’t wait to show them off!! 
)You are wonderful to work with and I would recommend you to everyone I know!
THE BOUDOIR PHOTO CONTEST WINNER IS BIANCA
We are so happy to announce the winner of our 2010 Valentine’s Day Boudoir Contest. This year’s winner is Bianca! Her story connected with everyone who visited the blog. We can’t wait to show her how beautiful she still is and has always been. She will enjoy the day of pampering along with a beautiful boudoir album. Please read the kind comments Bianca received from the voters below.
The contest was really close and the runner-ups received a lot of votes too. All of these stories are so touching and we appreciate the contestants for sharing them. Each finalist received many nice comments from the voters and we have posted some of those under their photos. Because of all the kind comments we received from the voters, we have decided to also award the two other finalists with a free sitting at one of our upcoming boudoir marathons!
Thank you to everyone for your participation and support for these amazing women.
Be sure watch out for our upcoming 1st Annual Mother’s Day Boudoir Contest! This contest will be held in April and is for all moms and moms-to-be. Be sure to check back in April for details on entering as a mom or you can enter your own mom!
Comments from Bianca’s friends and family:
“Bianca is so deserving of winning this photo contest. I have known her since 1993, she and her husband are a great couple and they truly cherish each other and their family. She is a remarkable person which is reflected in her family.” ~ Nicole
“Please pick my mom she is the best” ~ Jake
“I love my mommy and really want her to win! Please let her win!” ~ Alexis
“No one deserves this more and would appreciate this more than her. Over my 18 years she has always been there and guided me – she is a wonderful person and a great aunt. It would be nice to see her have something done for her instead of her doing for everyone else. ” ~ Michael (Bianca’s godson)
“My vote would be for the one person I truly admire my sister Bianca. She is genuine, beautiful, caring inside and out, she is a selfless person that does all and everything for her family and friends and puts her needs and wants aside. She would truly appreciate winning more then words could be expressed – it would build up her self esteem after three kids and give her a positive body, mind and spirit outlook.” ~ Renee
“Lets Go Bianca I Love You” ~ Loren
Bianca’s original story is at the 2010 VALENTINE’S BOUDOIR PHOTO CONTEST FINALISTS blog post.
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY FROM TAIT BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY
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February 15, 2010 - 9:35 pm
Congratulations Bianca!
And kudos to you Erica for such a lovely way of giving back;)
Kristine Marie
Thank you so much for participating in our 2010 Valentine’s Day Contest, we greatly appreciate all those who entered and submitted your thoughtful stories.
We received many wonderful entries. So many touching stories, about relationships, divorces, new brides, weight challenges, young moms, and it was hard to narrow it down to our finalists.
If you entered this year but were not a finalist, we would love for you to submit your special story again next year. If you didn’t enter this year, but are moved by the stories then we encourage you to submit your own story next year.
The finalists for this year are:
1) Bianca
2) Carolyn
3) Christine
To Vote:
Send an email to contest@taitboudoir.com with just the name of the person you are voting for in the subject line. Feel free to include comments with your vote, comments may be posted to the blog. Also leave a comment below!
Voting ends on Sunday, February 14th at noon PST. The winner will be announced later on Valentine’s Day.
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Bianca’s Entry
I am writing to share my story for my reason to complete a boudoir session. I have been wanting to do a session for a long time, however I always found some reason not to schedule — too busy with my children, my husband always gone both with a full-time job and being part of the D.C. National Guard. Then it was my idea that I had to be perfect — loose more weight, have hair/nails done, use our finances on me instead of my family. It was always easier to make an excuse then schedule a session. Last year, I made the decision to finally do it for me, and after going to Disney World where my daughter took part in the Christmas Parade. We came home with an unexpected blessing — so there went my session again. I was not going to try to get a sexy boudior with a pregnany belly. I figured I would wait. Now my new little man is 6 months. I am trying to once again avoid reasons why not to take the time to get some pictures where I can look and feel like a woman again. The reason in front of me now are; have I lost enough of my pregnancy weight? should I wait til I look better? After nursing my 3rd child how flattering could I look with 2 different sized breasts??? I see so much negative reason that I afraid I might put it off again until who knows when. I would really enjoy a session where I could have my hair/make up done and have a great professional photographer show my best qualities to make a homemaker mother of 3 look fantastic and beautiful. I have given up alot to be the best wife and mother that I can be. I hold 3 college degrees, but chose to be at home and sacrifice my finances and time on myself to take care of those around me. I would love to look forward to a day devoted to making me feel sexy and what a great gift to my husband. I just realized trying to find a picture to attach I really dont have any I like of me. The one attached is on me about 6 weeks before I had my son, I did my own hair and make up. The other is at home and the last of my beautiful daughter and I at disney with the ultimate beauty Cinderella, before she danced.
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Carolyn’s Entry
I am honored to be considered for this fantastic offer. I feel I qualify for this gift as it something that I would love to give my husband of twenty-five years of marriage. Then, I was a naive bride that slid into a size 6 wedding dress and to him I was the “best thing since sliced bread.” What followed I am not proud of and have promised myself never to return there. We had 2 great children, a daughter and a son. Together we have endured many hardships of miscarriages, failed business ventures, arson destroying our business, bankruptcy etc. I’m not making excuses, but during this time I did not make myself a priority and so told myself I didn’t care and soon I believed I didn’t care. Through all of this I ate, didn’t workout and frankly didn’t do anything to enhance myself at all. My husband stood by me, loved me, supported me and made me his top priority through this whole period of time. He never talked to me or others about my size, he always stated he was proud of me and genuinely cared for and about me. In March of 2007, after a medical scare,(high blood pressure and a diagnoses of Osteoarthritis) I was a size 26 at the time. I joined Weight Watchers and made myself the same priority that my husband had always made me. Through this weight loss adventure of almost 3 years, my husband”s love and support increased immeasurably! I have now lost 107 pounds and I’m sure that he’s prouder of me than I am of myself! I am back into size 6 and am not embarrassed to say that I have made myself that priority and I do care about myself. These photos would be for my husband’s eyes. He has put up with an overweight spouse and now has one that he is proud of not only on the inside but the outside too!
*UPDATED WITH VOTER COMMENTS:
“I truly hope Carolyn is your winner. Her commitment and dedication to pursuing and achieving her weight loss goals have been second to none. She has worked hard to get back to her former size and she looks amazing. So much to be proud of with this girl! I can’t think of anyone more deserving of this prize. Carolyn, you’ve come a long way, baby! You’re a terrific person and friend, and now your outsides truly match your insides.” ~ Paulette
“I am voting for Carolyn. She is awesome!” ~ Karla
“Awesome story….very inspiring for me!” ~ Sonya
“In addition to her inspiring weight loss story, Carolyn is just a wonderful person. I have a special needs son and she was his teacher’s assistant for one year…and was the best teacher’s aid he’s ever had!!” ~ Teresa
“Carolyn is an inspiration to all women struggling with weight issues. Well done” ~ Sheila
“Fabulous lady and an inspiration to myself and a lot of us @ Weight Watchers Cochrane. Good luck.” ~ Kelly
“I vote for Carolyn, as per her story, she is a worthy recipient. I have known Carolyn for almost thirty years and I would love to see her win this. She is truly an example to others.” ~ M. Walker
“My vote is for Carolyn. She has won a long, hard and well deserved battle and is an inspiration to all her Weight Watchers co-workers. Great work, Carolyn!” ~ Nancy
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Christine’s Entry
Like many women, I’ve been trying to lose those last 5 pounds. Well actually, it’s more like 8, if we’re being honest. Maybe even 10 on a bad day.
For the last 12 years.
Oh, there have been a few times when I got to that mythical “perfect weight,” but they never lasted very long, and I would rebound back with a vengeance. My weight wasn’t always an issue. In fact, until I hit university, I was, if anything, on the thinner side. I ate healthily, I didn’t have issues with food, and I didn’t think too much about my body at all. I gained a few pounds in freshman year, but who doesn’t? And then somewhere along the line, I learned to use food as a crutch. Feeling sad? I ate. Feeling happy? I ate. Feeling stressed? You got it. Along the way, I entered medical school. See above, rinse, and repeat. My weight ballooned over 20 pounds, which on a 5’2” frame is not insignificant. I shed most of it, but the stubborn last several pounds seemed irresistibly drawn to me like a magnet: I could pry them away by sheer dint of hard work and dieting, but then they would snap back as soon as I lowered my guard. I spent countless hours mourning the fact that my skinny clothes no longer fit, and gazed longingly at the cute outfits I wished I could pull off. I spent even longer gazing at myself in the mirror, cataloguing my imperfections, hating the way I looked: thighs too big, belly pudge, chipmunk cheeks, back fat, flabby arms. The squishy bits, the jiggly bits, the pudgy bits—it was all I could see of myself. While I was busy hating my body, I graduated from medical school (with a 6-figure debt), did my residency in Emergency Medicine, played violin, did my first ever 10K run, learned to tango, and began to cook. The body that I so despised got me through 32-hour stints of in-hospital call, allowed me to perform music, let me sprint 200 metres and up 5 flights of stairs in response to a Code Blue, and never uttered a word of reproach. I finished my training, moved to Vancouver, and started my new life as a full-fledged attending physician. And I’ve been thinking lately that maybe I haven’t been quite fair towards my body. My body—my imperfect, not-skinny, jelly-bellied body—has let me reset broken bones, provide comfort, love with abandon, and experience unalloyed pleasure. I’ve started to treat it a little better now. And I think it’s high time that I started learning to love my body, appreciate it for all its hard work. Instead of seeing flabby, squishy, and too big, I want to see sensual, curvy, and strong. I wasted my twenties hating what I saw; now that I’m in my thirties, I want to see my body in a new light. I want to see it through another’s lens, and see it as beautiful. And that’s why I would love to win a boudoir photography experience.
*UPDATED WITH VOTER COMMENTS:
“Hooray for a woman taking pride in who she is and how she looks!” ~ Douglas
“Christine Choi Rocks this contest. She should win!” ~ Shelly
“I would like to nominate Christine as the winner of your competition. I read Christine`s entry blog and I was really touched by what she shared. This is someone that has given so much to others unconditionally and deserves to have beautiful pictures taken of her by TAIT for the beautiful person that she is inside.” ~CP
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February 13, 2010 - 8:08 pm
Feel free to leave a comment. Thanks!
February 13, 2010 - 8:17 pm
All the stories are great, it’s hard to choose! Good luck ladies.
February 14, 2010 - 3:32 pm
Those are all touching stories. I don’t know how you’ll chose. It seems almost universal that women worry so much about how they appear (being in my mid-forties and overweight, I can relate. I think one of the best things about boudoir is that it can confer on a woman the gift of self-acceptance, and even more, pride in appearance. Once you realize how beautiful you really are on the outside, which is a reflection of the love and good feelings you have on the inside, those old worries about stretch marks, wrinkles, and less-than-flat bellies start to fade. Stretch marks and wrinkles can be seen like medals or badges of honor, earned through bearing and raising children, or nurturing in other ways. Differences to be celebrated rather than airbrushed away. A few extra pounds remind us of how soft we are to hold, and how yielding and generous our natures are.
February 14, 2010 - 5:53 pm
[...] original story is at the 2010 VALENTINE’S BOUDOIR PHOTO CONTEST FINALISTS blog [...]
This is the last day for entries for our 2010 Valentine’s Day boudoir photography package give-away. For full details on the contest, see the post below.
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February 16, 2010 - 8:36 pm
I had a great time at this boudoir session and my husband absolutely loved the album. I’m really glad I did the boudoir session for myself as well after having our son just 8 months ago.
February 23, 2010 - 6:50 pm
Love love the posing and makeup on this shot. Amazing capture!
Lucy had her images done in Calgary and her hair & makeup was done by Jackie Johnson.
What made you want to have boudoir photos taken?
I took some glamour shots when I was 16 that included hair and makeup with the photo shoot. It was also a milestone for me since I was turning sweet 16. I turned 30 this year which was another milestone for me. I wanted to find a photographer that specialized in taking sexy, classy photos that included hair and make up with the photo session. When I’m older I want to be able to look back at these photos and say “WOW I looked amazing when I was 30!” I also wanted to do something that got me out of my comfort zone, something I would never do. Looking back at the photos I took when I was 16 I looked much older than I do in these recent photos-which make me extremely happy!
How did you prepare for your boudoir session?
I went tanning, got my nails done, got a pedicure and had a hair appointment the day before. I wanted to make sure my hair was fresh (cut & color) for the shoot the next day. I had hard time finding lingerie I liked in the stores so I did some online shopping. I also wanted to wear outfits that you wouldn’t find at any lingerie stores in the city.
Who are your boudoir photos for?
These images are a gift for myself for turning 30 and a 10 year anniversary gift for my boyfriend.
Have you given your boyfriend the images yet, what did he think?
I let him look at my photos right away and pick out his favorites. Of course his favorite images are the ones with his bike helmet. He said I looked very hot and sexy.
What did you think of the experience of having the images done?
I was nervous at first but my nerves vanished as soon as I met Erica. She was very professional, personable, and easy to work with. I had so much fun and would do another photo session. I tell family and friends about the website and to seriously consider doing a photo shoot. It’s also a great gift idea for the one you love.
How do you feel about your boudoir photos?
I’m so happy and excited about them. I love looking at them and I can’t believe its actually me in the photos. I want to share them with everyone I know!
Which images are your favorites?
My favorite images are the ones with my boyfriend’s helmet, the photos where I’m wearing the black corset with leggings, and the “in between the sheet” ones.
Is there any other info or interesting story about your experience?
I enjoyed getting my hair and makeup done. It relaxed me before the shoot. Jackie, the makeup artist was amazing. She really knew how to accentuate my best facial features. I felt confident that my images would turn out great. Hair, makeup, outfits, all came together perfectly.
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February 10, 2010 - 11:51 pm
Love her photos, great variety.. the sheet shots are my favorite.
February 14, 2010 - 3:34 pm
I like how you worked in the polished toes! That’s a great shot (they are all nice) that you don’t see everyday. I like how they pick up the damask design of the headboard.
February 23, 2010 - 11:58 am
Reading the interview and looking at these pictures really shows the success of the shoot. She was looking for classy and sexy and I believe you accomplished both of those. The most important part about these shoots is bringing out the natural character of the person posing. The shots are very soft and personable. Lucy will definitely be able to look back and be proud of these shots. Well done!
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